I have always been late into something. I entered college in my mid-twenties and getting married after forty Christmases. Very late for an Asian man. I thought I get settled down before turning into the big four but I was two months late.
Late is a matter of the numbers we have in mind that ridicules our mood which urges us to get it over as early as we possibly can. Most of my friends went through this stage long time before me especially female friends. Some of them have kids who are in their teens which means that they have been married in their early twenties. Fine with me. Some friends did settled down in their thirties in which I believed is the perfect time to tie a knot. For as far as today is concern I don't have any friend who are over forty and not married. However, I do have few friends in their late thirties who are single...and all are in the States.
Age is just a state of mind. It's our commitment that really counts. Our devotions of being a husband and later being a father. Timing happens for a reason I guess. Friends tell me that I would be a more dedicated husband and a father because of my timing...not age. I guess everyone has an unspoken reason behind all things and occurrences. And whatever decision we have chosen it was meant to be that way. Nothing matters in life. It's you and me that make it matters.
I look forward for tomorrow and the future as everyday is just the beginning for me. I enjoy looking back recollecting the past because I am happy not when I am sad. The past is the foundation of my tomorrow and the path to my future where else the future is the outcome of my past and today...
This simply mean there's nothing much we can do to change the past but there's many reasons to live for a better future. The decision is yours. It got to be simple and precise. Live life the fullest as we are only given one life to fulfill and cherish. that's the reason why I love mind most no matter what others think of it...
My life is simply the best...
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